Coping with the challenges of being a significant other of a law enforcement officer and a U.S. military reservist

When discussing the daily stressors of our law enforcement officers, the significant others of these brave officers tend to be overlooked. Much research has been done regarding the effects of the demands of policing, shift work, emotional dissonance, marital difficulties, mental health, effects on children, domestic violence, etc... Many significant others are fascinated and mesmerized with the excitement of the job that their significant other has while they are dating. However, significant others may not realize the true reality of what the job entails especially once the couple is married and has other marital responsibilities, such as children, financial responsibilities, homeownership, family obligations, and more. For instance, a significant other's work obligations often include a constant change of schedules along with difficulty finding time together. Most significant others are not aware of how important independence is when partnering to someone so dedicated to serving our communities and country. This workshop has been designed to focus on providing insight to the wives behind the badge. Support and awareness of what it takes to be the significant other of a Los Angeles County Sheriff's Deputy is key, when dealing with the challenges of busy schedules, department obligations, home obligations and much more. Knowledge on maintaining a healthy marriage and strong communication skills is what the presenters hope to enhance within their attendees of this workshop. By building on skills such as; conflict resolution, strengthening the intimate and work related bonds with your Deputy, developing a strong social support group and proper communication skills. These and many other aspects will assist in providing the spouses of law enforcement officers with a positive outlook, independency, a healthier physical and emotional demeanor, and financial stability within their marriage.